Turns out it's harder to find the right reducing bushing in my area I guess.. I believe the temp sender I bought is a 1/8-27 NPT thread count, and I need a bushing that would adapt to a 5/8 NPT for that coolant access on the manifold, parts have been ordered, now we wait to see if they're right or not.
In the meantime, I wanted to ensure my coolant temp circuit functioned properly, as I've put the cluster back in the truck temporarily. I had to run a new orange and black wire from the firewall to the plug, and I grounded the coolant temp sensor straight to the negative terminal of the battery. I also checked continuity from the plug all the way back to the post coming off the gauge itself, and we're good there. As soon as I turn the key, the gauge sweeps all the way until its pegged. Not wanting to burn the gauge up (recently acquired NOS, and pricey), I quickly turned it off, double checked my ground and continuity in the same locations. Everything checks out. However, when I key on with a voltmeter on each gauge post, I'm getting 12 volts, and if I've researched correctly, the volt limiter attached to the coolant gauge should bring voltage down to about 5 volts. I suppose I could remove the limiter from the gauge assembly and check it right at the battery to know for sure, I just want to make sure there isn't something I'm missing.
-update: With the voltage limiter hooked up directly to the battery, if I test at the 12-volt terminal, 12 volts are seen with no issues, if I test at the 5-volt terminal, it bounces from 0, to 6,7,12 volts at random, never settling for more than half a second.